Yesterday, my mum and I were shopping around in the city. And later for lunch, SS will be joining us and will meet my mum. SS and my mum saw each other before but they just greeted each other. Yesterday was a very important day for me. My parents is not fond of my S.O and for a long time whenever I have a fight with my parents, it would be about my relationship with SS.
I really wanted my parents to meet SS so that they could know what kind of person SS is like, and really hope my parents might change their views on him, even if its a tiny bit. SS is a really great guy and I want my parents to know that.
My mum wanted to eat steak so we went to a restaurant where they had steak. We sat together and we all started to converse with each other. I was explaining to SS of what I did today with my mum earlier, and the conversation went from there. Soon afterward, my mum started on a different topic and asked SS, "What do you like about Bubbles?" SS replied, "Everything." My mum then explained her thoughts of me coming home late and how she doesn't like that. She also mentioned about my dad, and she apologised that my dad is not open about our relationship and hope that SS would understand and would give some time for my dad to open up. SS responded that he understands and he doesn't mind about it.
The three of us talked for a while and chilled at the restaurant. My mum were planning to meet up dad after lunch when he finishes work. SS asked my mum if he could greet my dad and my mum said that it was alright. We then went to in front of QVB building and I saw my dad heading towards us. My mum first went up to him, then my dad came over to us (me and SS). Both of them shook hands, and my dad asked what was this (he was pointing at the bag). SS said that it was a gift for my mum and Dad said, "Thank you so much". I hugged my dad later, and soon after we said our farewells, and my parents were heading home, while I stayed to hang out with SS.
We were walking, and I asked him if he was nervous. He said a little. I asked him with my mum or dad or both? He said my dad. But I'm glad that both my parents were able to meet him. Especially my dad. I hope that my parents and SS could get along well. I just want them to know that I'm with a good guy. If I'm gonna date SS for a long time, I want my parents to be happy about it. If they're not fond of my relationship with SS, then of course I'll be depressed about it and don't want it to affect my relationship with SS. I really did felt guilty about yesterday though. I felt that I was giving pressure or burden to SS in some way about him meeting my parents but he did say that he wanted to meet my parents. He did told me that he was happy yesterday and I'm glad that everything went well.
For a long relationship with SS, I hope that my parents will be on good terms with SS.
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